Resentful? Not really.

I get a secret thrill when I see a recent picture of my ex-boyfriend and I notice he's starting to look like an old man. 

He recently sent me greetings through a mutual friend and I bluntly asked,  "Why?" Things did not end well between us. I don't believe he has the right to say hello to me. Does that make me bitter? No.

I heard through the same friend that he wanted to know where I was and what I was doing. Again, I asked "Why?" Why does he even care? 

 I can honestly say I don't spend even a single minute of my day-to-day living thinking of him and yet when I hear in passing that he says "hi," suddenly it's all I can think about. 

I saw a recent picture of him. I notice he's gained some weight and his hairline is starting to recede. I feel vindicated because he looks past 30 and I do not.